Describe a time you changed your mind.

Sample answer (estimated band 7.5)

A specific time I changed my mind was about two years ago when I was offered a promotion that required relocating to a different city. Initially I was thrilled and more or less decided to accept the role straight away. I had to rethink my plan when my partner reminded me about our commitments — our daughter’s school and my partner’s job were both settled where we lived. I talked it over with my partner and with a close colleague who’d been through a similar move. At the last minute I postponed making a final decision so I could weigh the pros and cons properly. On reflection, the main reason I changed my mind was practical: the new job had higher pay, but the longer commute and the disruption to my daughter’s schooling outweighed the financial benefit. I changed my mind because family stability felt more important than career advancement at that moment. I also realised that I could seek other opportunities within the company that didn’t involve moving. Looking back, I don’t regret altering my choice. It was uncomfortable to say no after initially agreeing, but being honest about my priorities improved my relationship at home and gave me time to plan a future move if it ever becomes right for us.

Part 3 discussion questions

1. Why do people change their minds about major life choices?
2. Is it acceptable in society to reverse a decision?
3. How do culture and family influence decisions?
4. Can frequent changes of mind be harmful in the workplace?
5. Should schools teach decision-making skills?

Part 1 questions: Making decisions

1. How do you usually make decisions?
2. Do you ask for advice from others?
3. Do you prefer to decide quickly or think for a long time?
4. Have you ever regretted a decision?
5. What helps you make better decisions?